Experiences........a part of everyone's life.....either good or bad....interesting or boring...the one that need to be recalled and some that you don't want to remember ever.....lot of categories.....and there is not a single soul who has not experienced any one of it...
Some experiences are those that you never wanted to had but still are a part of your life, the experiences that when recalled brings a smile to your face but at the same time leaves tears in your eyes.The experiences that u cannot fit into any category......the one that can not be called good and the problem is not even bad....the one that u never want to remember again but still strikes back every time u close your eyes...
Sometimes it happens that the things u r avoiding the most appears in ur life in such a way that u have to deal with it.Things that u never wanted to experience strikes u in such a way that u can not avoid it..things u never believed in becomes the truth of ur life............
You......living on ur own standards, ur own conditions....gave up everything just to make someone else happy...You started feeling for someone without caring about the people around u....You never thought about them who supported u all ur life,, who acted as a backbone for u, just becoz of that one person...U never wanted all this to happen bt u were forced by ur inner self just to care for that someone...U always wanted to get out of all this but it returned back to u every time..All this always jumbled up ur mind and u never felt urself to be in the position to take a decesion.
Finally.........., when u took a decision against all ur standards, against all ur conditions, against everything n everyone around u........just in favour of that someone..........
And then that decision proved wrong, U r left alone with nobody around, guilty of all those people who supported u.........Now u realize that u left all those who were always with u for someone who was never with u.......
You then can not even face urself, u feel guilty of all those people, u can not match eyes with them, u fumble while talking to them just because of the fear inside u of cheating them. U r only the culprit then....u can not even blame someone else for this bcoz u were the only one who took the decision.......how can anyone force u to decide anything when u don't want it to happen..........
U r left helpless.....with no solution....
Really such experiences shatter ur mind, u cannot focus on anything or anyone coz all those things always knocks on ur mind............
But then everything has a negative as well as positive aspect, its upto u how u take it. It is easy to say follow the positive one but really difficult to act upon if u r in such situation....Trust me I tried the negative one too...but then found out that crying and giving up is not the solution....Whatever comes up just face it instead of running away from it....U will urself find out that u r a much stronger person than before....u will face all such easily in future and will never be distracted by anyone in any situation.Try this and u will be self satisfied then...
And just give it a thought....this is life.....u should have every kind of experiences...its upto u to learn a lesson from each and everyone of it....and after all we are fortunate to have a life....why give it all for some one who does not deserve even a bit of it....its ur life.....live it kingsize....!!!!!!!!!
Some experiences are those that you never wanted to had but still are a part of your life, the experiences that when recalled brings a smile to your face but at the same time leaves tears in your eyes.The experiences that u cannot fit into any category......the one that can not be called good and the problem is not even bad....the one that u never want to remember again but still strikes back every time u close your eyes...
Sometimes it happens that the things u r avoiding the most appears in ur life in such a way that u have to deal with it.Things that u never wanted to experience strikes u in such a way that u can not avoid it..things u never believed in becomes the truth of ur life............
You......living on ur own standards, ur own conditions....gave up everything just to make someone else happy...You started feeling for someone without caring about the people around u....You never thought about them who supported u all ur life,, who acted as a backbone for u, just becoz of that one person...U never wanted all this to happen bt u were forced by ur inner self just to care for that someone...U always wanted to get out of all this but it returned back to u every time..All this always jumbled up ur mind and u never felt urself to be in the position to take a decesion.
Finally.........., when u took a decision against all ur standards, against all ur conditions, against everything n everyone around u........just in favour of that someone..........
And then that decision proved wrong, U r left alone with nobody around, guilty of all those people who supported u.........Now u realize that u left all those who were always with u for someone who was never with u.......
You then can not even face urself, u feel guilty of all those people, u can not match eyes with them, u fumble while talking to them just because of the fear inside u of cheating them. U r only the culprit then....u can not even blame someone else for this bcoz u were the only one who took the decision.......how can anyone force u to decide anything when u don't want it to happen..........
U r left helpless.....with no solution....
Really such experiences shatter ur mind, u cannot focus on anything or anyone coz all those things always knocks on ur mind............
But then everything has a negative as well as positive aspect, its upto u how u take it. It is easy to say follow the positive one but really difficult to act upon if u r in such situation....Trust me I tried the negative one too...but then found out that crying and giving up is not the solution....Whatever comes up just face it instead of running away from it....U will urself find out that u r a much stronger person than before....u will face all such easily in future and will never be distracted by anyone in any situation.Try this and u will be self satisfied then...
And just give it a thought....this is life.....u should have every kind of experiences...its upto u to learn a lesson from each and everyone of it....and after all we are fortunate to have a life....why give it all for some one who does not deserve even a bit of it....its ur life.....live it kingsize....!!!!!!!!!
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